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One of the most common complaints that couples have during sex is the feeling that they should be having Look-Ma-No-Hands orgasms.The problem is, only a small minority of women are able to orgasm strictly from penetration; the vast majority require some form of clitoral stimulation… Some women require very intense, direct clitoral stimulation – sometimes a level of intensity that only a vibrator can give – while others are easier to get off than a pair of shoes.
We like to make jokes-that-aren’t-really-jokes about how guys are easy to please and every guy jerks it the exact same way… Just as no two women masturbate the same way, neither do guys.The idea that nothing counts besides a penis going into a vagina has led to a brilliant bit of rules-lawyering by teens who want to get around pesky “virginity pledges” or religious restrictions against pre-marital sex by referring to “technical” virginity.Thus, to many, it is possible to be a virgin who has had oral and anal sex, who’s given (or received) hand-jobs and tit-jobs or engaged in mutual masturbation, rolled around naked with hordes of others and has had more sexual experience than their fellows.A woman who is a virgin is a vision of innocence and purity…at least until she gets past her early twenties, at which point she’s clearly repressed or otherwise has something wrong with her.In fact, a person can have slept with dozens, even than how many tricks and secret techniques you’ve learned.
It’s not just about being able to give the Transylvanian Twist or the Swirly-Go-Round.
Small wonder that being a virgin can be such a source of angst to men And yet one can be a virgin who has had considerably more sexual activity than their contemporaries.
In modern western society, “sex” almost always equates to “penetrative sex”.
It’s also possible for guys to actually make it harder ((Phrasing!
)) for others to get them off; many guys actually desensitize themselves by using an extreme level of pressure or friction that the human body just can’t match; they jerk themselves through their clothing, or rub themselves against a wash cloth or a carpet.
They may use what Dan Savage has termed “the death grip” where they squeeze their penis like it owes them money; some guys masturbate by humping their mattress or the space between the bed and box-spring.